Ah, the infamous summer fling.
Its something weve all lusted after at one time or another. After all, whats better than a hot romance in the hot weather with a hot guy?
Unlike in the fall and winter when it seems like everyone is pairing up (hello, cuffing season) just to have someone to snuggle with over the holidays the summer months are all about getting out, living life, and exploring new options.A summer fling can help you figure out what you really want out of a long-term relationship in the future, and you can have a great time with your short-term hottie in the process.
Although some of us end up dating guys that are absolutely wrong for us through our summer flings, it doesnt always have to be that way.
A summer fling is the perfect opportunity to date a new type of guy you may never have considered before. To help you find your next best fling, heresa list of seven types of guys you should try dating this summer.
Theres someone for everyone!
1. The Politico
With the election of Trump last November, not to mention the contentious fight between the two major parties, theres no doubt that were living in highly politically-charged times.
Issues affecting millennial women are unfortunately at the forefront of many of these political battles. After all, things like health care, reproductive rights, and equal pay were all discussed during this election cycle.
If youre looking to have a fling this summer, why not try dating a political guy?
The Politico, as thisworldly and knowledgeable guy has been dubbed, is often immersed in the world of domestic and international politics. The Politico will have a Facebook or Twitter feed full of articles from the New York Times, The Hill, and CNN.
Not only will you get to have a great summer fling with someone that cares about the world, you also may learn to see things from a new perspective in the process.
2. The Do-Gooder
The Do-Gooder spends his Saturday mornings at the soup kitchen and Sunday afternoons volunteering at The Humane Society.
Hethinks about causes outside of himself. In fact, he spends much of his time trying to make the world a better place. Maybe you wont go on dates out clubbing until 4 AM or drink on a boat with his friends, but youll probably end up seeing new parts of your city that you didnt know were there.
That could include places like parks that need painting or group homes where people are just looking for someone to talk to.
And maybe, youll also discover something you would really like to get involved in yourself! Dating the Do-Gooder will not only open your eyes to the really good men in the world, but it may also inspire your own journey.
3. The Feminist
This guy believes in equal pay for equal work, the autonomy of womens bodies, and female access to care.
The Feminist will treat you like you matter because youand this guy realizes it. The Feminist will spend time asking you about your opinions and truly listen to what you have to say. Hell keep up-to-date on issues that impact women and talk to you about them.
Best of all, The Feminist will know that a woman can do anything and everything a man can do.If youve never dated a feminist, dating one this summer will open your eyes to what youve been missing.
Its (thankfully) not just women who feel strongly about feminism these days.
Dating a man who realizes that equality matters will make you see the dating world differently, too.
4. The Adventurer
Have you ever wanted to try Parkour but been too scared youll break something? Maybe skydiving seems like it would be right up your alley, but you havent found a friend that was willing to go with.
This summer, try dating The Adventurer: The guy thats after new sights, sounds, experiences, and new thrills. This guywill make sure youll never have a dull moment as long as youre together.
Everything you two do willoverflowing with excitement!
The Adventurer will add an extra level of fun to your summer and youll be exhausted, but happy, by the end of it.
5. The Athlete
If youthink shopping is the only cardio you need in your life, you should probably consider dating The Athlete this summer.
This guy will not only teach you the ins and outs of all things sports-related, hell also probably inspire you to get more physically active yourself. Join him for a run outside on a beautiful day or partner up for thatfun volleyball recreational league youve always had your eye on.
The Athlete loves the human body and keeps up with beinghealthy all year-round. Its a win-win, really: Youll have your eyes opened to athleticsyouve never really delved into before hell probably be amazing in bed, too.
No one ever said sex couldnt count as cardio.
6. The Workaholic
The Workaholic might not be the for trying to make a long-term relationship work, but there are still tons of great things you can learn from dating a guy thats super committed to his career in the short-term.
A work-life balance is great, but ruthlessly pursuing a career path that youre after is sometimes a necessity as a young adult.
This guy will understand the value of hard work and, while its likely hell bring that to his work life first and foremost, he may also bring that tenacity to a relationship with you.
The Workaholic will also show you what its like to network and get things done like a boss. You may even pick up some tips for when youre ready to build your own professional career.
Hell probably bring you to professional events like business happy hours and charity galas.
Cross your finger that hes a bossinaspects of life, too.
7. The Teacher
No, Im not talkingabout a 5th grade math teacher although you could date one of those, too.
Instead, look for a guy thatsthe polar opposite of you in every way a guy thatll you something.
Are you a bookworm that cant stop stocking your Kindle? Try dating a guy that loves movies, so you can appreciate the visual aspect of storytelling along with the written. Are you an introvert that loves quiet, alone time?
Try dating a guy that will take you to a rave, where the EDM is thumping and the people, and music, are louder than life.
The Teacher will drag you so outside of your comfort zone,itll help to broaden your horizons indefinitely.
A summer fling doesnt have to be all fun and with no real reward.
Spending time with one of the guys from this list will not only guarantee you agood time, but also allow you to gain some new life experiences along the way.
What more could you ask for in one summer?
